How to get a girls phone number in 60 seconds and why you have not been successful at getting their phone number…up until now!
Just about every day good-looking girls get approached by guys who want them for sex. Most of these guys are not very good looking which is not the most important thing in the world as you will soon see. Almost none of the guys that approach girls are graceful in their approach.
The first thing you have to understand in order to get a girls phone number is you have to understand her frame of mind in terms of what she goes through.
How would you feel if every single day you were approached by five to 10 different women most of them not so good looking and almost all of them having stupid things to say like “hey baby I bet your big between your legs”. If you do not get much action your first thought is probably “I would love that!” Believe me you would tire of it quickly and an attractive looking girl is very tired of it.
At this point you may already be appreciating why women seem to have such a defensive attitude when you approach them and try to get their phone number.
Read on and you will see how to quickly break down these barriers and get on their side of the fence. In a matter of 60 seconds or so you will be able to get their phone number and their e-mail address.
Step #1 to get girls number:
Approach the girl. Now that was not obvious was it?
My personal favorite place for meeting a girl and getting her phone number is the grocery store. The reason for this is it is a place where she or will feel comfortable because there are plenty of people around she will feel safe. The second reason a grocery store is a great place to get a girls phone number is because you can tell a lot about her before you open your mouth. For example what kind of food is in her grocery cart. is that a lot of junk food? if you are a health food nut may be approaching her is not the best idea. Is there a lot of health food? Again if you are into junk food may be a match is not there. Do you see diapers in her grocery cart. Pretty good chance she has a kid. If you hate kids again maybe not such a good match. And last but not least the girl pushing the grocery cart has both hands on the handle so you can easily see if there is a wedding ring there or not.
A great opener when you approach the girl would be something along the lines of “gee, I am a single guy who does not know much about cooking” kind of question. It does not have to be an overly witty or bright or brilliant question which takes the pressure off to be bright or charming. If, for example, she is near bread and grabbing a loaf of whole wheat bread you could say “do you really think whole wheat bread is much healthier than white bread like they say in the news.” Or if she is grabbing a box of pasta say “Do you know of a really great pasta recipes that do not include tomato sauce?” Anything to get a conversation started.
Step #2 to getting a girls phone number
The next step to getting the girls phone number is to imitate her.
When human beings attempt to make bonds or friendships with other human beings there are two factors they consider. The first is physical attractiveness. This is true even with just friendships. It is of course especially true when members of the opposite sex are attempting to meet.
The second most important factor when making in making the decision or the attempt to befriend another individual is we ask ourselves how much is this person like ourselves. Ultimately most of us look to form bonds with people that we feel are as much like ourselves as possible. It makes us feel comfortable and validates who we are and it reinforces the idea that we are going to have a good time for this person because “this person understands me”.